I just got home from a birthday dinner for Amy. There was a table seated behind ours with 5 women in their 60's and we joked that it was us in 30 years. I feel very lucky to have the friends I have - I forget sometimes that it's rare to have this family of women that I count on, and who also rely on me. We are all so different from one another and yet I don't know what we would do without each other. Ladies, this is for you (and you too, CatRat), I love you all and badly want for you to get what you need. But also what you want; because you deserve it.